Sex Goddess Mentor

One of the biggest differences that men and women have sexually is that women can have several female orgasms. What that means is that after a man has an orgasm, he usually has to wait a little while before having another one.  But many women have the ability to have another orgasm right away.

While not every woman can achieve multiple orgasms, many women can.  It helps to know your body well and to have a partner that’s willing to do what it takes to help you have another.  You may be pretty happy that you can even have one orgasm – but you don’t have to stop there if you don’t want to.

If you’ve had trouble even having one orgasm during sex, make sure to work on that first.  Once you know how to achieve orgasm in the first place, it’ll be easier to have multiple orgasms if you want to.

When it comes to a woman’s body, it helps to remember to be gentle.  For many women, the clitoris is particularly sensitive after intercourse.  That means that rubbing it roughly is going to be uncomfortable rather than stimulating.  Your chances for multiple orgasms greatly increase if you touch the clitoris gently.

This is one of the reasons that women enjoy oral stimulation so much.  It is very gentle and allows direct stimulation of the clitoris.  The rules of chivalry state that ladies should come first, and that’s no different in the bedroom.  Allowing the female to have an orgasm first will increase the chances that she can have another orgasm later in the sexual encounter.

Take your time to achieve multiple orgasms.  The longer it takes to climax, the more intense it will be and the greater chances you have of achieving multiple female orgasms. Just before she is about to climax, slow down and stop stimulation.  After a moment or two, you can get back to business.

Some positions are better than others for multiple orgasms.  For example women tend to have a better chance of multiple orgasms if they are on top during sexual intercourse.  This gives the best control over clitoral stimulation during intercourse and allows her to make sure the g-spot gets stimulation as well.

The g-spot shouldn’t be forgotten because it opens the window to a vaginal orgasm that can be very intense and satisfying.  This is a small gland you can feel from inside the vagina a couple of inches from the opening.  Rubbing this area with fingers or the head of the penis can also help improve the likelihood of multiple female orgasms.

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As humans we have our flaws and one is that we are creatures of habit. We have a tendency to gravitate towards what we like and repeat it, repeat it and repeat it, until we can’t stand it anymore.  It’s difficult to stop doing what once worked, but if it’s not working then you want to try something different, or all those moves, kiss, kiss, rub, rub and suck, suck will suddenly make you cringe with their familiarity.

Variety is such an important part of your sexual relationship. Variety will keep your sex life from becoming boring and predictable. Imagine [...] Continue Reading…

Has your sexual relationship been as exciting and satisfying as you would like it to be? Are you seeking ideas to spice things up?  Has your sex life become boring and routine? These are common problems among couples, however, they can be easily improved.   The following guideline will assist in you in gaining enhanced pleasure, more excitement, increased sexual satisfaction, better orgasms and deeper intimacy.

1. Avoid Complacency
Complacency in a relationship is dangerous and ultimately leads to the loss of passion and desire.  Before you know it, your sex life is a boring routine. It’s very easy, especially for those [...] Continue Reading…

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Do you know an erogenous zone is an area on the human body that has heightened sensitivity which when stimulated results in a sexual response?  This could include any and all areas of the body, however the majority of men and woman have common erogenous zones.  

The penis and clitoris are not the only erogenous zones. Your skin is a highly sensitive organ. Exploring and discovering these zones with your fingers, lips and/or tongue can give a great deal of pleasure.

To start, create a sensual and soothing environment using candles, music and scents. You may [...] Continue Reading…

Giving each other and every part of the body loving, sensual attention creates an ecstatic reverberation in each cell of the body. You will radiate from your core and be open to connect with your partner in ways that are deep, electric and unforgettable. Such a profound sensual experiences deserves to be done with care and focus.

Massage is an especially good thing for men to focus on. Women often need the kind of attention it gives them to feel comfortable with proceeding on to more intimate activities. The nurturing, caring-for aspect of romance is extremely important between you and [...] Continue Reading…

Positions are important in the enjoyment and fulfillment of your sexual experience. They have a direct impact upon the pleasurable sensations you’ll experience, level of intimacy and intensity of orgasm. A satisfying, fun and exciting experience generates a sense of adventure and pure enjoyment in each other.

Positions range from tender lovemaking to the exciting and adventurous while others are suited for getting down to the business of raw carnal fucking. The information provided below is strictly a guideline. Have fun with them and invent some of your own unique positions!

Positions to Rock HER World

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I really enjoyed this article and it’s long but, it covers the little known and even less admitted thoughts, urges and motivations of the human male. Even though the descriptions are a bit stereotypical, the underlying truth still prevails.

Written by Doctor Andy – In an ongoing informational about the human sexual condition. These articles are written especially for the Kristen Archives and their readers and may be reproduced in other forums as long as the information is not edited and the author information and email address remains in tact.

A Truth: Women are from Venus, Men are from [...] Continue Reading…

Goddesses would you like to know how to give your man one of the strongest and most intense orgasms he’s ever had? Yes! Well, men have any area much like our G-spot, but theirs is called the Prostate and it is a highly sensitive spot.

Prostate orgasm is a term used for massaging the prostate gland. and so is milking. Prostate massage is normally used therapeutically to treat and prevent a variety of prostate disorders such as prostatitis and BPH (Benign Prostatic Hypertrophy). Many health care providers recommend prostate orgasm as a way of soothing and relieving prostate distress. [...] Continue Reading…

As you enter into the menopausal stage of your life it doesn’t mean a death sentence for sexual desire and fulfillment. You can enjoy sex without the physical pain and discomfort that can come from the changes your body is going through.

Declining hormone levels are responsible for many physical changes that may lead to a decrease in libido and sexual satisfaction if you’re menopausal women. Without estrogen, the vagina is less well lubricated and the vaginal lining thins. Lower estrogen levels also decrease the blood supply to the vagina and the surrounding nerves making the vagina drier. These symptoms [...] Continue Reading…

Ladies take it from me, this is one area of your sexual life hat you don’t want to neglect. You may have been told that masturbation is “dirty’ or “immoral” or that only men do it. I shared with you in the previous post the reasons  to include self-pleasuring in your sexual vocabulary. After all, men have been enjoying this sexy secret for years. it’s our turn to get in on the fun.

Here are some tips I have learned over the years and would like to share with you.

Schedule pleasure time.

Making taking time for yourself a priority.
Turn off [...] Continue Reading…