The enlightened woman aspires to become the best she can be in fellatio techniques. She is keenly aware that there is incredible power in this skill.    The satisfaction you give him also reaps huge benefits in the relationship as well. Oral sex is extremely important to men because their identity is strongly associated with the  penis. A man who is deprived of receiving oral sex, especially one who enjoys and desires it, will likely feel rejected, resentful and dissatisfied. It is not uncommon for men who don’t receive oral at home to find it in other places and his partner may never be aware of it.

Usually women say they don’t enjoy oral sex for one of four reasons:

1.They don’t like the idea of a penis being shoved into their mouth.
2.They feel as if they are gagging
3.They don’t like the taste
4.They don’t want to swallow semen as the man ejaculates.

These issues are perfectly understandable. The good news is there is a way to address each and every one of them. There are approaches that can make oral sex manageable, gag-free and even tasty!

Developing and enjoying fellatio techniques gives you power as a lover, and a life partner. This sexual act gives him ultimate sexual pleasure, increased intimacy, and enhance all aspects of the relationship.

Providing fellatio to your man is one of the finest ways for you to express your love for him and prevent wandering eyes. He will find you overwhelmingly alluring and desirable.

The How To Guide

Get comfortable and you might want to tie back long hair. Invite your lover to lie on his back and lift himself up on a pillow to watch you slip between his legs and satisfy him.

You may even want to drop to your knees on the floor for your man while he stands above you with his penis hanging in your face. Either way he will be turned on.

Add edible lubrication. Like most other sexual contact, slippery is better. Saliva works, but you can’t always get things or keep things as moist as you would like. So keep some handy and for extra oral pleasure, use a flavored lubricant.

Tantalize and tease. Touch him lightly and softly kiss the tip of the penis. Remember the most sensitive areas are on the coronal edge, along the edges of the head and frenulum.  This is the point where the shaft meets the head on the underside of the penis.   Pay lots of attention to these areas with the tip of your tongue. Lick every inch of it. Then spread your tongue out wide like your going to lick a lollipop and lick up and down the shaft. If you never take the whole penis in your mouth, this will already be a big treat for many guys.

Stimulate his scrotum. Be gentle while you lick and kiss!  Pull them gently into your mouth and  suck them. Stroke his penis while tending to the testicles. As you kiss and lick your way back up his shaft continue to encircle the base of his scrotum with your free hand. The combination of sensations will intensify the feeling in both areas.

Take him in your mouth. Using one hand, grip the base of his penis with your hand. Open your mouth and take his penis in as far as you feel comfortable. Close your lips around his shaft and experiment with different tongue movements.

It’s all about friction, soft moist friction.  You don’t want your teeth to touch the shaft.  Curve your lips around your teeth to prevent any contact.  Slowly move your head up and then back down again while gradually increasing your speed as his penis moves in and out.  Squeeze the base of the penis with your fingers while sucking however be careful of your throat. This action will cause the head to expand.  You can also swirl your tongue around his penis as you hold it in your mouth providing a sensation most men love.

Use your hands. Your mouth isn’t the only factor in great oral sex. With the hand that’s gripping the base of his penis you can give him some additional sensations by moving your hand up and down in rhythm with the movements of your mouth, giving him the feeling of “full coverage” If your mouth needs a rest continue using your hands and don’t forget the scrotum. Kiss, lick, or tickle it varying the amount of pressure to keep things interesting. Lick his perineum (the area leading from the testicles up the anus) while stroking him or rub the perineum while sucking him.

Wet one of your fingers with your mouth or use lubricant and caress his anus. If he responds positively to this, then slip the finger inside his anus while you suck on his penis.

It is a real turn on for many men to ejaculate into your mouth and swallow it.. Do what feels comfortable to you.  The big key is not to act repulsed by his semen. He can give you a signal when he’s about to ejaculate and then continue using your hands and lick his testicles. Have a towel near by if you need to spit it out or let him ejaculate on your breast.

Don’t “Go all the Way”
While lots of guys love oral sex, they’re not necessarily committed to climaxing that way. They’ll often be happy with the oral stimulation, if it’s followed by penetration. If you can find a pleasurable way of licking, sucking or caressing with your tongue or perhaps using a combination tongue and hands then when you’re tired or he’s ready to ejaculate, slip him out of your mouth and into your vagina.

Reflex Action
The gag reflex is perfectly normal and we all have it.  It varies from person to person.
Your throat may be more likely to constrict and trigger the gag reflex if you are feeling anxious or vulnerable.  Also viewing oral sex as an unpleasant experience you wish you could avoid can trigger this reflex.  The secret is to make sure you are always in control of how much you take into your mouth.  It’s also necessary to take time to breathe.

Be aware of your lover’s body language and sounds as you pleasure them. Read their cues and make adjustments in your speed, pressure and rhythm accordingly. Encourage your lover to let you know what feels good and what they want. Sharpening and fine tuning your oral sex techniques will keep your man satisfied, faithful, devoted and captivated!

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Chemistry isn’t taught but it is very important to have to keep passion and satisfying sex alive. If good sex is important to you and there isn’t any chemistry with your partner you both will be terribly disappointed. This is a real important issue to make note of before making a commitment to a long-term relationship.

The depth and quality of your relationship and the fine-tuning of skills is something that can be improved upon. Here are some things that can get you started.

Communication

Both in and out of the bedrom communication is critical. It could be what makes or breaks the relationship. Communication will also strengthens the relationship with your partner. It will deepen your intimacy and connection with one another creating a more satisfying union.

It’s hard to have a good sexual relationship with out communication. Couples need to be able to express what they desire, their sexual wants and preference on a regular basis. If couples can’t express in this way, some men will seek it else where

Keep it Interesting

It is important to regularly do things different. Change up the techniques, positions, place and time so things don’t get stale. You want keep things evolving and interesting. Introduce play toys to your repertoire. Learn some breathing techniques that can help you to relax

Try out some new positions by using sex furniture. This furniture comes in different shapes and sizes to meet your positioning needs. Unusual Tantra techniques may surprise your partner. Being awkened in the middle of the night with some oral delights can be mind blowing..

Build Anticipation

This is a time to go slow and build the desire, passion and arousal. Make each other feel special. Drive your man crazy with giving and withholding in a playful way. Hold out on having your orgasms as long as possible. Spend a lot of time teasing an seducing because in the end you’ll both benefit from more explosive sex.

Be Adventurous

Let yourself be bold, daring and adventurous. A lot of men wish their woman would be willing to explore new possibilities. Being open and playful can lead to great fun and passion. Surprise your lover and keep them guessing.

Have unexpected sex at the spur of the moment in an out of the ordinary places. Have a heated make out session in the car or at the movie theater.

These are only a few of the many ways to have a better sex life. An important key for maintaining excitement, passion and pleasure is to stay attentive to keeping your sex life alive. Don’t let complacency settle in and always keep your sexual relationship a priority in your life.