Are you still asking the question “where is my g-spot?” and rightfully so with all the hoopla we hear surrounding this mysterious thing that creates so much pleasure. It’s actually known as the “grafenberg spot” after gynecologist Ernst Grafenberg from Germany because in 1950 he noted that some women emitted fluid during orgasm, and he believed it came from the urethral glands. Some people claim the G-spot, which is located on the front vaginal wall, can cause you to climax, and even female fluid emission, in some cases. For few women G-spot stimulation might create a more intense orgasm than stimulating their clitoris. Not this Goddess..LOL. However, most of you won’t have an orgasm when this area is stimulated. So, don’t get frustrated trying or think somethings wrong with you if you can’t. You are perfectly normal. 
It can be fun and arousing to discover your precise g-spot, or at least try. Especially, if you get your partner involved. Just try not to become fixated on achieving a sexual goal (multiple orgasms, simultaneous orgasm, g-spot orgasms) One thing I can promise is that this is the best way to NOT enjoy any sort of sexual encounter. Remember that sexual exploration is mostly about the journey, not the destination (although the destination is better than most, I’ll agree). Try not to make this another notch in your “sexually self-actualized” belt.
You can usually locate it between one and three inches inside of your vagina, toward the front, on the location of the anterior wall. Place your palm face down on your vulva and slowly insert a finger inside your vagina (use lube if you’re feeling a little dry), crooking it forward in a “come hither” motion. When you’re up to about the second knuckle you should feel a slightly bumpy or ridged area on the upper wall of your vagina. You can try stimulating this area with your fingers or a sex toy. You may find it easier to use a sex toy that has a curved shape, such as a vibrator or dildo. Some find it right away, for others it may take several tries. Don’t feel pressured because there is nothing wrong if you don’t feel immediate stimulation. This is normal.
The g-spot has a spongy area surrounding it which becomes engorged with blood when you get aroused sexually, so you may find it is easier to locate when you are turned on. The best positions for this are either lying on your back, squatting, or laying on your tummy.
A few of you might find it harder to stimulate this area with your hands. If this is the case, you can try using a dildo for assistance, and as previously mentioned, a curved dildos work best for this. Squeeze a small amount of lube onto your sex toy and insert it into the vagina with the tip pointing upward toward the top inner wall. Push it slowly inward a few inches until the tip of the dildo is touching and pressing on the front wall of your vagina.
You can try your own experiments using different motions and pressure. You may find that you like the feeling of the pressure in your vagina more, or the tingling caused by the vibration. You will soon discover which feels best to you. You may start with a back and forth or circular motion, but move toward more vigorous movements if sensations increase. You might begin feeling an increased level of intensity, tingling, maybe arousal and possibly even an intense urge to urinate. Begin playing with your clitoris in your favorite motion, and continue stroking your g-spot area until you explode in ecstasy
If you’re playing around and it’s not doing anything for you, try something else, and know that there is nothing wrong with you, and what turns us all on is incredibly individual and unique.
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